This is the main index for all the pages added since I rebooted the site in 2025. There's several with dates older than that, but that's because those are mostly copies of posts I made in various Facebook groups that I'm copying onto my own site, or unfinished stories that I plan to work on again in the future.
Other indexes: archives index, tags index.
2020-09-12 09:24
Pretty sure whoever made the picture below meant it as some kind of dark ominous warning, but honestly that all looks good to me. To hell with their so called "creational norm", or as I like to call it, "patriarchal heteronormative toxic monogamy culture".
2020-07-22 09:48
So I probably have a few posts worth of thoughts on the concept of "friends with benefits". I've given the reasons I don't particularly like the term itself, but for these posts I'm using it, as it's well understood.
2020-07-12 10:22
Sorry for a lack of updates. Life's been keeping me busy. So here's a few random comments I've made on other posts lately that I think should be shared here as well. This might be slightly long, so bear with me. I'll put nice headers on each comment to give a bit of context.
2020-07-08 09:12
This is a collection of the original posts from The Rollercoaster FB page from March 2020 through the end of that year.
2020-05-07 10:43
Still sorting the next couple of "Hang-ups" posts in my head, sorry for the delay, my brain doesn't always work quite like I'd want, and sometimes I wonder why I try to run these pages when I have such problems expressing my thoughts. Then I re-read some of the comments I make in other groups/pages and realize in those cases I seem to have no problems getting thoughts to convert to words. Maybe it's only on my own pages where "writers block" takes hold because I want things to be "perfect" (which is of course an arbitrary concept that has little meaning, and certainly doesn't describe any aspect of a social media page...) Anyway, while waiting for my next theory post, here's a few comments I've made on various posts with absolutely no context. Enjoy!
2020-05-06 10:35
Read all the way through, trust me!
2020-05-03 16:03
Having been a part time nudist, and supporter of nudism rights, the hang-ups society has about nudity always baffle me. I get that for a lot of people, they automatically associate nudity with sexuality. I can assure you, they are completely separate! Some people think I'm joking when I talk about going to nude beaches, but I'm completely serious. It's certainly a way to step out of your comfort zone, particularly for those of us with body image issues. However soon you realize everyone is naked, and every body has it's own "flaws". Then you realize they're not flaws at all, they're simply our individual characteristics. Some are indomitable, others we can change in various ways. I highly recommend experiencing it at least once to just about everyone!
2020-04-30 10:01
Still have the first of the Hang-ups posts in the development stage, and will post in the next few days. In the meantime, here's a part of a reply I made in a group that I thought might resonate here.
2020-04-14 09:19
2020-04-14 08:192020-04-13 11:07
So, a discussion came up in one of the polyamory groups I'm in about what effects the isolation/distance is having on relationships, and libido. Some people noted a loss of interest in both, others noted a crazy libido and desire for contact with partners (both existing, and new.)